Embracing My Artistic Journey: A Personal Story of Growth and Passion
- Arriel Boyd
- Mar 14
- 3 min read
Updated: Jun 30

They say life begins at 40, but at 31, I feel like I’m finally starting the chapter I’ve been writing in my head since I was five years old. If you know me, you know that a sketchbook has been my constant companion through every stage of life. However, somewhere between growing up and becoming a mom of three, the "artist" part of my identity got tucked away behind diaper changes, school runs, and the beautiful chaos of raising a family.
Lately, though, something has shifted. I’ve realized that I’m not just making art for myself anymore—I’m making it for them.
The Power of Being Seen
My children are at that magical age where they watch everything I do. They see how I handle stress, how I spend my free time, and—most importantly—how I treat my own passions. I’ve spent years telling them they can be anything they want to be. But I realized that showing them is much more powerful than just telling them. I want my kids to grow up seeing a mother who:
Values her talents: Showing them that our gifts are worth nurturing
Embraces the hustle: Letting them see the "boring" work behind the beautiful finished product
Redefines "Success": Proving that a dream doesn’t have an expiration date
Hard Work is the Secret Ingredient
Being a "successful artist" used to feel like a lottery win—something that just happens if you’re lucky. Now, I know better. Success is a 1:1 ratio with effort. It’s about carving out an hour to paint when the house is finally quiet. It’s about the courage to put my work out there, even when I’m nervous. By chasing this dream now, I’m giving my children a front-row seat to what grit and determination actually look like.
"I want them to know that dreams don't work unless you do."
What’s Next?
This journey isn't going to be perfect. There will be paint spills on the carpet (more than usual!) and days where the "mom" schedule and the "artist" schedule clash. But that’s the beauty of it. I’m showing my three little ones that you don’t have to choose between being a devoted parent and a driven individual. You can be both. You can be messy, you can be busy, and you can be successful.
The Importance of Creativity
Creativity is a vital part of who we are. It allows us to express ourselves in unique ways. For me, art is not just a hobby; it’s a lifeline. It connects me to my inner self and helps me navigate the ups and downs of life. I encourage my children to explore their creative sides too. Whether it’s drawing, painting, or crafting, I want them to understand that creativity is a powerful tool.
Finding Balance
Balancing motherhood and artistry is a challenge, but it’s one I embrace. I’ve learned to prioritize my time. I set aside moments in my day to focus on my art. This not only fulfills me but also sets a positive example for my children. They see me working hard, and they learn the value of dedication.
Sharing My Journey
I believe in the importance of sharing my journey with others. I want to inspire other parents to pursue their passions, no matter how busy life gets. It’s okay to take time for yourself. It’s okay to follow your dreams. I often remind myself that I’m not just creating art; I’m creating a legacy for my children.
The Joy of Custom Art
One of the most fulfilling aspects of my artistic journey is creating custom art. There’s something magical about bringing someone’s vision to life. Whether it’s a family portrait or a unique piece that captures a special moment, I love the process of collaboration. It’s a beautiful way to connect with others and share in their stories.
Encouragement for Fellow Creatives
To all the fellow creatives out there, I want to say this: Your art matters. Your voice matters. Don’t be afraid to share your work with the world. Every stroke of the brush, every line drawn, is a reflection of your unique perspective. Embrace it, and let your creativity shine.
Conclusion: A Journey Worth Taking
To my kids: Watch closely. I’m doing this for us. This journey is not just about art; it’s about living fully and authentically. It’s about showing you that dreams are worth pursuing, no matter how chaotic life may seem. Together, we’ll navigate this beautiful mess called life, and I hope to inspire you to chase your own dreams with passion and determination.
In this journey, I’ve found my voice again, and I’m excited to see where it leads. Thank you for being a part of my story. Let’s create something beautiful together.
If you’re looking for unique, personalized artistic creations, I invite you to explore the world of custom art. It’s a wonderful way to bring your imagination to life.




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